The Heart & Soul


Where imagination & intentionality meet, magic happens.

It’s a beautiful thing that the wedding industry has evolved to where you can truly make it your own, just as unique as your own relationship.  A wedding should be a reflection of you in every way possible, by incorporating all the most meaningful details and nothing that doesn’t speak to you…a sweet harmony of sentimentality, design, and logistics to create the most memorable moments in the spirit of love, joy and connection. I’m here to help make that happen, however you’d like to do it, and whoever you are.  All love stories are welcomed and celebrated here.


NICOLE

When I’m not pouring into weddings, you can probably find me chasing my toddlers around, savoring  a matcha latte with a friend, squeezing in yoga and ballet classes, cooking with my family, or getting grounded in nature somehow.

You’ll likely see that I can be pretty laid back while still attentive to details and creative with design and problem solving. I’ve often been told that I am a very calming presence on wedding days which is a huge compliment and now something I pride myself in.

I’m drawn to creating work that is bold and intentional with each color, shape and texture. My designs should invoke feelings of whimsy, joy, and romanticism. Sometimes ethereal, sometimes edgy, always imaginative and completely unique and dreamy. I’m always down to get weird and artsy too, just putting that out there.

I have been incredibly fortunate to work with so many very rad couples who let me dream with them and bring visions to reality and I’m so excited for more!

  • Native San Diegan

  • Firefighter partner and mama to two littles

  • Experienced but rusty ballet and swing dancer

  • Will travel for food, wine, history, and views

  • Occasionally good chef

  • Novice gardener

  • Vintage enthusiast

  • Avid camper

  • Sucker for a good pastry

Favorites

Flower | Bearded Iris

Band | The Cure

Dessert | Panna cotta

Movie | You Can’t TakeIt With You

Adventure | Hiking & Mountain biking in the Dolomites

WHO ARE FRANCES & FRANCIS?

I’ve always loved rummaging through family photos and nostalgia since I was a kid. One day a few years ago I came across a tattered old album in my grandparents’ attic that I’ve never noticed before. It was full of maybe a hundred or more antique postcards, all face forward with their notes hidden. Even my grandma didn't know much about them but decided it was time to preserve them better.

With each delicate postcard carefully removed, a story unfurled that slowly revealed more and more of our family history. Almost all of them were essentially love letters between my great-great grandparents, Frances and Francis, during their sometimes long-distance courtship, up until a bit after they married. Some were simple and sweet, some were even a bit cheeky, all were fascinating to me.

We learned about who they were as young folks in love, where they lived, and how they spent their time. Suddenly we had an intimate glimpse into their private lives, their thoughts, and sense of humor. To hold these pieces of paper in my hands that my ancestors scribbled on over 120 years ago, to have a window into the past, our family’s past…it was thrilling.

With that inspiration of authentic and timeless love, I give you Frances Loves Francis. Now let’s tell your love story.

Inspired by a century-old love story, and now by your love story.